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How to Know If You're Actually Having an Orgasm

Tue, 02 Dec 2025
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Episode Description



In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily breaks down what's really happening in your body during orgasm—and why you might not even know if you've had one.



The physical signs that prove you're orgasming—even when there's no "explosive release" moment, and why your experience might look nothing like what you've been told to expect.



That partner who goes full jackhammer the entire time: the exact conversation framework to redirect them without crushing their ego—and why most people need those fast strokes eventually, just not the whole damn time.



A listener whose new partner believes orgasms damage your mental health and relationships—what this anti-climax philosophy gets right about connection, and what the science actually says about orgasms strengthening your bond.



The guilt trap of needing fantasy to finish during oral: why your imagination became your default pathway to orgasm, and the five-senses technique that retrains your brain to stay present with your partner instead.



How to find your G-area (because it's not a "spot"): the exact finger motion, positions, and toy shapes that actually work—and why this spongy tissue is just your internal clitoris showing up to the party.



Plus: what squirting really is, why dry orgasms happen, and the neural pathway secret that means you can learn to orgasm in completely different ways than you do now.



Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction

2:25 - The Science of Orgasm: What Actually Happens in Your Body

4:28 - The Four Stages of Orgasm Explained

6:39 - Clitoral Orgasms: Understanding Your 12,000 Nerve Endings

10:33 - G-Area Orgasms: Finding Your Internal Pleasure Zone (Plus Mirror Technique)

14:26 - Squirting & Female Ejaculation: Separating Facts from Fiction

17:46 - Dry Orgasms & Semen Retention for Penis Owners

19:43 - Hands-Free Orgasms: Tantric Breathing & Orgasmic Meditation

22:42 - The Jackhammer Problem: Why Fast Penetration Doesn't Work for Most Vulva Owners

29:35 - Fantasy vs. Presence: How to Stay in the Moment During Sex

Pelvic Positioning Changes Everything

Fri, 28 Nov 2025
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Episode Description



In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily takes live listener calls and answers the questions you're dying to ask but won't.



A caller discovers she can only finish one very specific way—what's really happening in your pelvis when your legs are straight, and why changing this pattern might unlock entirely new pleasure.



The masturbation habit that's secretly limiting your orgasms—and the exploration technique that expands your body's repertoire without any pressure to "fix" yourself.



Why one couple finds anal more pleasurable than vaginal sex, what this reveals about nerve endings you didn't know you had, and the specialist who can actually help if penetration hurts.

Plus, what happens when you stop chasing what you think should feel good and start discovering what actually does.





Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:57 - Orgasming with Straight Legs: Finding Positions That Work for Your Body

7:42 - Why Having One Way to Orgasm Is Completely Normal

8:38 - Dating After Loss: Navigating Chastity Play & Delayed Ejaculation

16:21 - Male Chastity Explained: Pleasure Beyond the Dominant Role

17:43 - Erotic Lactation: A Surprisingly Common Intimacy Practice

24:15 - When Anal Sex Feels Better Than Vaginal: Understanding Different Pleasure Pathways

27:40 - The Clitoris Extends Internally: Why Anal Orgasms Are Possible

29:37 - Dealing with Vaginal Pain: You Don't Have to Live with Discomfort

How to Talk to Teens About Sex

Tue, 25 Nov 2025
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily brings on sex educator Dr. Emily Nagoski for a live conversation—and they get brutally honest about their own sex lives falling apart.

Why even bestselling sex experts lose their desire—and how Dr. Emily's nervous system was so shot she didn't even want orgasms.

The myth that kept her terrified to stop sex once it started: believing "blue balls" required hospitalization—and the truth that you can stop and start anytime.

A parent worried their college-age kids aren't having sex or relationships—the questions to ask instead of pushing sex on them, and why nobody dies from not having sex but people do die from loneliness.

The most important thing parents can do around sexuality: unlearn your own shame first—because your embarrassment when they ask questions teaches them more than any words ever could.

The reframe for anyone struggling with desire: what you actually want when you want sex (it's not orgasm—you can do that alone), and what you don't want when you don't want sex.



Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

2:10 - The Five R's Framework for Difficult Conversations

4:58 - How Phones Are Destroying Teen Connection & Intimacy

7:08 - Talking to Kids About Porn: The Social Justice Approach

10:12 - What to Do When Your Kid Watches Porn (Real Parent Story)

14:34 - The Power of Repair in All Relationships

20:30 - Navigating Gender, Pronouns & Sexual Identity with Kids

28:26 - Why We Need to Stop Gendering Empathy

34:00 - Raising Sexually Healthy Humans Without Being Weird

38:30 - My Teenager Found My Vibrator: What Now?

39:46 - Five Quickfire Questions on Sex & Relationships

5 Things Secretly Stealing Your Pleasure

Fri, 21 Nov 2025
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily brings on sex educator Dr. Emily Nagoski for a live conversation—and they get brutally honest about their own sex lives falling apart.



Why even bestselling sex experts lose their desire—and how Dr. Emily's nervous system was so shot she didn't even want orgasms.



The myth that kept her terrified to stop sex once it started: believing "blue balls" required hospitalization—and the truth that you can stop and start anytime.



A parent worried their college-age kids aren't having sex or relationships—the questions to ask instead of pushing sex on them, and why nobody dies from not having sex but people do die from loneliness.



The most important thing parents can do around sexuality: unlearn your own shame first—because your embarrassment when they ask questions teaches them more than any words ever could.



The reframe for anyone struggling with desire: what you actually want when you want sex (it's not orgasm—you can do that alone), and what you don't want when you don't want sex.





Timestamps:

0:00 – Introduction

1:26 – Sex Experts Lose Desire Too

7:24 – The Pleasure Thieves

17:53 – Why It's Okay to Stop During Sex

20:20 – Cold Feet and Orgasms

25:50 – The Role of Shame

30:17 – Navigating Social Media Censorship

35:41 – Teaching Kids About Sex

38:47 – The Patriarchy Problem

39:49 – Closing

Your Dating List Is Keeping You Single

Tue, 18 Nov 2025
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In this Sex with Emily episode, Dr. Emily sits down with celebrity dating coach Damona Hoffman to dismantle the fairy tales keeping you stuck in your dating life.



Why your mile-long partner checklist (six feet tall, specific job, perfect abs) is sabotaging your search for real compatibility—and the question you should ask instead: "How do I want to feel?"



The difference between dating for superficial traits versus shared life goals—why wanting a yoga partner matters way less than wanting the freedom to pursue your own interests in a relationship.



A caller who's getting ghosted on dating apps wonders if women have too many options—the real reason your profile isn't working, and it has nothing to do with competition.



The "three C's" that'll transform your dating profile overnight: strategic color to stand out, context that tells your story, and character that shows who you really are (no sunglasses photos—we need to see your eyes).



Why "chemistry at first sight" is actually lust, and you can't know if you love someone the minute you look into their eyes—the three-date rule that gives real connection time to build.



The reframe that takes the pressure off: stop trying to be liked and start being upfront about what you want—it'll filter out the wrong people and attract your actual match.





Timestamps:

0:00 – Introduction
1:21 – F The Fairytale
13:00 – The Dating Tracker Strategy That Changes Everything
22:48 – Values Over Political Labels in Dating
25:48 – The Chemistry Myth
34:15 – How to Know If You're Coming On Too Strong
45:07 – Dating Profile Photos: The Three C's
47:35 – Five Quickie Questions
49:17 – Closing and Where to Find Damona

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